{"id":8437,"date":"2019-03-28T08:30:37","date_gmt":"2019-03-28T12:30:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogs.butler.edu\/healthyhorizons\/?p=8437"},"modified":"2019-03-21T11:59:16","modified_gmt":"2019-03-21T15:59:16","slug":"8437","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/blogs.butler.edu\/healthyhorizons\/health-maintenance\/8437\/","title":{"rendered":"When Change is Hard"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"content-header\" class=\"content-header\">\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.mentalhealthamerica.net\/sites\/default\/files\/styles\/interior_page_banner\/public\/LIVINGWELL3.png?itok=jDrUOxl_\" alt=\"Change is Hard\" \/><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"content-area\" class=\"content-area clearfix\">\n<div class=\"region region-content\">\n<div id=\"block-system-main\" class=\"block block-system block-odd block-first block-last clearfix\">\n<div class=\"content clearfix\">\n<div id=\"node-122\" class=\"node node-page node-odd\">\n<div class=\"content\">\n<div class=\"field field-name-body field-type-text-with-summary field-label-hidden clearfix\">\n<div class=\"field-items\">\n<div class=\"field-item even first last\">\n<p>These proven tools can help you feel stronger and more hopeful. Check out each page for specific, easy-to-follow tips.<\/p>\n<div id=\"content-area\" class=\"content-area clearfix\">\n<div class=\"region region-content\">\n<div id=\"block-system-main\" class=\"block block-system block-odd block-first block-last clearfix\">\n<div class=\"content clearfix\">\n<div id=\"node-121\" class=\"node node-page node-odd\">\n<div class=\"content\">\n<div class=\"field field-name-body field-type-text-with-summary field-label-hidden clearfix\">\n<div class=\"field-items\">\n<div class=\"field-item even first last\">\n<ol>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.mentalhealthamerica.net\/connect-others\" class=\"broken_link\">Connect with others<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.mentalhealthamerica.net\/stay-positive\" class=\"broken_link\">Stay positive<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.mentalhealthamerica.net\/get-physically-active\" class=\"broken_link\">Get physically active<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.mentalhealthamerica.net\/help-others\" class=\"broken_link\">Help others<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.mentalhealthamerica.net\/get-enough-sleep\" class=\"broken_link\">Get enough sleep<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.mentalhealthamerica.net\/create-joy-and-satisfaction\" class=\"broken_link\">Create joy and satisfaction<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.mentalhealthamerica.net\/eat-well\" class=\"broken_link\">Eat well<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.mentalhealthamerica.net\/take-care-your-spirit\" class=\"broken_link\">Take care of your spirit<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.mentalhealthamerica.net\/deal-better-hard-times\" class=\"broken_link\">Deal better with hard times<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.mentalhealthamerica.net\/get-professional-help-if-you-need-it\" class=\"broken_link\">Get professional help if you need it<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>Making a change is not easy. In fact, 60 percent of people who achieve their New Year&#8217;s resolutions flop once-or more-before succeeding.<\/p>\n<p>But you can pump up your healthy habits. And the more you stick with a new behavior, the easier it gets. That&#8217;s because repetition actually can build pathways in your brain.<\/p>\n<map id=\"Map\" name=\"Map\"><\/map>\n<p>If you&#8217;re having trouble, consider these tools for sticking with change.<\/p>\n<h2>Boost Your Motivation<\/h2>\n<p>Everyone has times when their motivation sags. Here are some tips to boost yours:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Remember your why.<\/strong>\u00a0What made you try this wellness tool? Was it because you wanted to be more focused at work? Less grouchy to your spouse? Less winded at the gym? Or maybe it was just because you deserve to feel good. Whatever your reasons, keep a list to inspire you.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Make a change.<\/strong>\u00a0If you&#8217;ve tried your chosen tool for a while and aren&#8217;t feeling better, try another. Remember, not all of the 10 Tools are right for everyone. Also consider shifting the way you use a tool to avoid boredom. For example, if you&#8217;ve chosen to\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.mentalhealthamerica.net\/go\/live-your-life-well\/others\" class=\"broken_link\">help others<\/a>, instead of checking on your neighbor this week, try donating to charity.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Get support.<\/strong>\u00a0If appropriate, join a group or work with a friend. You also can ask those around you to support your change. If you&#8217;re trying to stay positive, you might ask your kids to tell you something great about their day.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Congratulate yourself.<\/strong>\u00a0Success breeds success, so acknowledge yourself for any steps forward. Little rewards sometimes also work well.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Resisting Temptation<\/h2>\n<p>At times, you may find yourself on the verge of returning to unhealthy behaviors. Tips for those times include:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Be prepared.<\/strong>\u00a0Some temptations can be avoided altogether with a little planning. You can pack healthy snacks to resist junk food. You can record your late-night TV show to avoid losing sleep.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Wait it out.<\/strong>\u00a0If you&#8217;re feeling an unhealthy urge, remind yourself that it will pass. Most urges fade pretty quickly. If yours is stubborn, try distracting yourself with something fun.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Ask yourself about yourself.<\/strong>\u00a0What will make you feel better about yourself later, sticking with your wellness change or dropping it?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Dealing with Setbacks<\/h2>\n<p>Failing is not such a big problem. How you deal with failure is often what really matters.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Don&#8217;t give up.<\/strong>\u00a0When you break your plan, try not to assume all is lost. It would be a shame to give up entirely just because you slipped for a few days-or even a few weeks.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Don&#8217;t overly criticize yourself.<\/strong>\u00a0Scolding makes you feel bad about yourself, and bad does not promote success. Instead, imagine what you&#8217;d say to a friend if she had failed.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Think about what went wrong.<\/strong>\u00a0Then start looking for solutions. Were you too tired at the end of the day? Try moving your activity to the morning instead. Did you feel like you didn&#8217;t have time? You might switch to one of the wellness tools that take almost no time, like\u00a0staying positive. Did you put other people&#8217;s needs before yours too often? Remember that if you don&#8217;t take care of yourself, you may wind up too burnt out to help anyone else.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.mentalhealthamerica.net\/when-change-hard\" class=\"broken_link\">http:\/\/www.mentalhealthamerica.net\/when-change-hard<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on the_content --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on the_content -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>These proven tools can help you feel stronger and more hopeful. Check out each page for specific, easy-to-follow tips. 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