The Compass Center

by Kate White

I didn’t think much about the Center for Faith and Vocation after my first visit. The staff and students were welcoming but I thought that the CFV wasn’t essential to my Butler experience. Like most freshmen, I didn’t comprehend what the Center was and what went on there. In hindsight, I know that the Center helps students “discover a life of meaning, purpose and contribution.” They’re there to help you through your growing pains, search for answers and provide a safe place for you to sort through whatever’s on your mind, ultimately for you to leave Butler as a better person. By sophomore year, I was unhappy with my Butler experience and disconnected with my faith. I knew I needed to make a change and the CFV was exactly what I needed.

I met with Judith Cebula, CFV director, to discuss getting more involved with the Center and the rest fell into place. I started working at the CFV five days a week, keeping the house open and promoting events as a communication intern. The work I did at the Center repaid tenfold. That’s one of the unique aspects of the CFV. Most student clubs or organizations ask you to devote your time and efforts to their cause; the benefit you gain is professional experience and some form of enjoyment. The CFV is directly geared toward your personal growth for a lasting fulfillment that extends beyond your collegiate years. The time you spend there benefits you and your future.

Not only did I gain personal fulfillment about my faith and vocation, but I found a new community of friends. At the CFV I was welcomed into a home of spiritual believers who cared about each other, regardless of their obvious differences. Their pleasant demeanors provided a calming and agreeable atmosphere. It’s the content mentality that there’s a higher meaning to life than the busy hum of writing papers and weekend social gatherings. The CFV gave me a home base to reorient myself if I ever felt off track or needing encouragement.

As you can expect, I also learned a great deal about communications over the past semester, promoting the Center on campus:

First and foremost: there’s a great need for communication. In our busy culture and especially at Butler, there’s a lot of information and clutter that we face daily. The biggest question is: how do we stand out? Advertising comes in many different forms such as social media (Facebook, twitter, blogs, websites), posters, emails and signage. I found that Facebook is good for reminding students last-minute about events and email is best used sparingly for important reminders and details.

After we determine the medium, we have to discern our message. Personally, I knew that students had misconceptions about the CFV and reservations about approaching the Blue House. We needed our messaging to reflect our purpose and communicate the less tangible philosophy of our organization. We reinforced our main goals to “discover a life of meaning, purpose and contribution.” Our messaging also clarified misunderstandings about less common terms such as “vocation” and “baccalaureate” to dispel apprehensions about our programming. We further considered the volume and timing of our messages: frequency, time of day, proximity to the event, medium, etc.

Additionally, I gradually started to understand the programming issues at Butler and how to circumvent them. Butler students simultaneously do everything under the sun, yet there are too many events for them to attend. It’s best to merge two events or common causes such as Demia, the feminist group, joining the CFV to discuss woman’s role in religion. Coming together for one event reduces programming and draws in a larger crowd. Similarly, the CFV is looking to combine its programming with academic courses to give students incentive to attend our programming. Further, we found that rather than promoting the same events that we’ve had in the past, it’s better to ask the students for feedback. There’s no sense in forcing a program that’s unnecessary in the first place.

Overall, I felt like I made progress with my skills and helped the CFV to solidify its position on campus. I learned how to maintain a Facebook page and interact with students. I clearly communicated the Center’s mission and the services they offer. I worked with the directors to adjust programming to better suit the students’ needs and gathered feedback. I additionally benefitted spiritually from my time at the Blue House and I feel better equipped to find my vocation and build a meaningful life beyond my college experiences. I’m excited for my next two years at Butler. I would highly recommend the Center for Faith and Vocation and encourage you to try it out for yourself.

by Lauren Stark

I still haven’t really grasped the fact that my freshman year will be over in a matter of days. The memories of waving goodbye to my family and sleeping that first night in my dorm room in August are still fresh in my mind. I came into college thinking I was completely prepared. I was wrong. But I’m glad I was because being unprepared has allowed me to learn some lasting lessons.

The professors really care. I always heard that Butler professors make connections with their students, but I didn’t believe it until I started classes. My first-semester English professor still jokes with me when I see him in the halls now. My First-Year Seminar professor—who knew our names on the first day of class—sat down with me for coffee to see how I was doing and what future plans he could help me with. My professors’ attention to me as a student pushed me to put forth my best work all year long.

My faith is mine to maintain. Butler is the first non-Catholic school I have attended in 12 years. I was worried about how I would maintain my faith on a campus where I wasn’t in that “Catholic bubble.” But what I have found is that my faith has grown because of Butler. I have to make the conscious decision to go to BCC Mass or to avoid meat on Fridays in Lent. I feel more connected to my faith now; it is truly mine.

Focus on school, but also make time for friends. I would definitely call myself an overachiever. In high school, I had no problem working all night on an essay or studying for a test. But in college, I have come to learn that while school is my priority, I also need to give myself time to relax with my friends. In the long run, I’m not going to remember the one sociology question I got wrong, but I will remember the nights I stayed up just a little too late laughing uncontrollably with my friends.

College is a time to broaden your horizons. There are so many different perspectives in college. In particular, I have found that learning from different faith traditions has helped me grow. Whether it’s talking with my sorority sisters at our non-denominational Bible study or listening to an interfaith panel discussion, I have found that my life is so much richer because of my greater appreciation for new ideas.

College is your chance to grow. It took me a long time to fully grasp these four ideas, and I wish I had seen this list in August. But what I also have come to know is that college is all about learning. I’m sure that I will discover more lessons over the next three years. And I also realize those three years will go by so fast but that I’ll look back on my time here as the time when I found out who I truly am.

by Matt Miller

If I could speak with my freshman self, rest assured that I would have plenty of advice to give. Namely, don’t waste your time and money trying to find a good Chinese restaurant in Indianapolis… One doesn’t exist. Even more importantly, don’t even think about trying a new barber here. You won’t like the results. Avoid the embarrassing Facebook photos and just wait until you go home to get a haircut.

In all seriousness though, I’ve compiled a list of what I consider to be the ten most important pieces of advice that I could give my freshman self. I should note that they’re not written in any particular order. I consider them all to be equally important.

1. Take advantage of the cultural opportunities at Butler. The “Butler Cultural Requirement” won’t be implemented until after you matriculate, so you won’t be required to attend events like ballets, recitals, or guest lectures. You need to make time and attend some though! You will be more well-rounded as a result.
2. Get to know your professors. The professors here are incredibly kind and supportive. You will come to consider several of them mentors and even friends. Know that your professors are always willing to listen and give advice, regardless of whether you want to discuss academics or not. Having a trusted adult you can confide in will be very important over the next four years.
3. Break out of your shell. Don’t be afraid to try new opportunities, even if they are outside of your comfort zone. Go to social events. Interact with new people. Join organizations. Come back early for Rush Week. You won’t regret any of it.
4. Plan for your plans to change. You’ll change your major several times at Butler, and that’s perfectly okay. In fact, it’s typical. When you realize that it’s time to make a change, don’t try to fight it. It will take time to discover what you want to do in life. Take these opportunities to reassess yourself and see how much you’ve grown as a result of this “detour.”
5. Follow your passions. While is undeniably important to maintain a high GPA and complete your major requirements in a timely manner, don’t let these things completely dictate your class schedule. Take an astronomy course. Consider learning Hebrew. Maybe even try a psychology class. Forget that your GPA might decline slightly and that the classes won’t fulfill any of your major requirements. You chose a liberal arts institution for a reason. Broaden your education.
6. Figure out who you are. It sounds strange, but I mean it. College will be your chance to get away from your family, friends, and community back home and really learn who you are. Discover your interests, beliefs, and goals (not the ones everyone expects you to have). This is an exciting time, so don’t let it freak you out!
7. Establish a routine and stick to it. Time management will be key. As soon as you can, outline a schedule that will allow you to get your work done without pulling all-nighters. Completing the assigned reading is important, but so is sleep!
8. Make time for yourself. College is tough. It will exhaust you physically and mentally. Ensure that you set some time aside to just relax. Watch a movie. Take a walk. It doesn’t matter what you do as long as you step away from the books for a while.
9. Be thankful. You’re going to do well in college, but it won’t be a solo effort. There will be a great number of people who will you help along the way. Make sure they know that their efforts don’t go unnoticed! Take time to tell these people that you care about them and sincerely appreciate their guidance. Please don’t wait until it’s too late.
10. Cherish your time here. I know it sounds cliché, but really take this piece of advice to heart. Savor every moment. Your four years at Butler will be gone before you know it so make the most of your time here. I understand that you don’t particularly enjoy group projects or class discussions. I can also empathize with your concern that you might be randomly assigned to a horrible roommate. However, these moments and events that you dread will actually give rise to some of your fondest memories as an undergraduate. (By the way, your freshman year roommate is awesome. You’ll consider him a great friend for years to come.) Please don’t waste your time hoping for graduation to get here any sooner than it already will. Trust me when I say that when it does come time to graduate, you will wish that you had more time here.

by Hannah Wysong

*This list is not exhaustive.  It is not what I would write if asked to give advice to freshmen in general, it is advice I would give my freshman self. 

1. Buy rain boots immediately; Butler’s sidewalks flood every time it rains. 

2. Don’t be afraid to go places (or do things) by yourself.  This does not just include campus organization meetings, but places around the city, like the IMA or the library.  Traveling (even locally) is empowering and an experience from which you can learn a lot. 

3. Quality of friends is much more important than quantity of friends.  It is good to meet a lot of new people, but you don’t have to be best friends with everyone.

4. People (probably including you) are almost always going to be friends with people they live near.  Proximity has so much to do with connections.  It’s not necessarily good or bad, just good to be aware of.

5. The world is bigger than Butler.  Definitely get involved on campus; it is so important to know what’s available, what’s going on, and how campus works.  However, there are many other communities with which to get involved: off-campus religious communities, an off-campus job, an organization in Indianapolis.  You can create communities in places other than Butler.  In addition, do not stress about missing out on something on campus (an event, an organization, a job, etc) because there is so much more to the world than Butler. 

SATURDAY, MARCH 24, 2012

by Laura Micklich

Last night, it all came together.
For months, Benedict Inn has been planning Girls Night Out, a new event for the organization. Our wonderful & ingenious marketing coordinator took over most of the planning when duty called, and has seen it through to the end; and what a great end it was!
Last night, 33 women (by my final count) came to Benedict Inn for an evening of special time with their girl friends. The women were offered mini-manicures, massages, t’ai chi, card making, jewelry making, vendors to shop from, and, of course, a delicious dessert bar. Then, to top it all off, all the vendors donated door prizes for us to give away. It was a fantastic evening, and some women even decided to stay overnight and make it a “slumber party!”
However, what I love most about Girls Night Out is that it didn’t just benefit the women who came, but other women and their families as well. Part of the proceeds from last night’s event will be donated to The Julian Center in Indianapolis to support those affected by domestic violence.
Working on Girls Night Out has further shown me the grace of Benedict Inn, and people, in two ways. First, I have seen how much passion someone can bring to planning an event such as this. I know how exhausting, and sometimes frustrating, the process has been for our marketing coordinator, but I can honestly say that I have never seen someone so committed to making sure everything came out so perfectly. I have, and everyone at BI has, such a great appreciation for all the hours and dollars she spent to pull off this program. Second, I am even more convinced of the important role that the Inn has in the local community. I think it is so cool that we can host an event that serves both the women who attend and the greater community at the same time. Last night I was able to see the smiles and hear the laughter of the attendees, but I can also imagine the effects the donations will have for the families aided by The Julian Center.
What’s next for us? Well, of course we have plenty of more events & programs coming up, but we also hope to bring back Girls Night Out bigger & better next year!
For more information on The Julian Center and its services, please feel free to visit their website: http://www.juliancenter.org/

by Kate White

Ever been on an alternative break or religious conference? Drop everything and go if you ever have the opportunity. Honestly, Spring Break in Panama City Beach with Cru was exactly what I needed. Before last week—I had no idea what my life was missing.
I doubted my decision to go: I want to go home. I don’t want to pay. I have too much homework. What if I feel uncomfortable? All of those lies were shattered within the first hour. Big Break built life-long friendships, kindled my faith, refreshed my mind and gave me purpose in a week’s time. Talk about mind-blowing!
Our first session celebrated God like never before: flashing lights, dub step, dancing and all. The speakers were witty and inspirational. Their messages tugged at my heart: we’re all hurting inside, yearning for a greater purpose. Flashing red light, Aha! Moment. WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN ALL MY LIFE?!(Yeah, I had a lot of those moments in PCB)
We’re yearning for more because this world can’t satisfy our needs. Only a relationship with God can heal that void that we’ve all tried to fill. Once we place our trust in Him, life will be enhanced in ways we’ve never imagined. And guess what? Everyone’s invited to the party.
That’s where evangelism *shudder* comes into play. That word has a very negative connotation, but hear me out. The key to sharing your faith is not in spewing out bible verses. It’s listening. After all, you’re sharing the good news because you care about where that person will spend eternity. You genuinely must care about the other person’s life. Then if they’re willing, you can share how God has enhanced yours. It may be uncomfortable but that person’s eternity with God is worth it.
If nothing else, you’ve gained a better perspective and appreciation for different beliefs. We’re all trying to find meaning in our lives. After Spring Break, I’m feeling a lot better knowing that God’s got it all under control.
1 Timothy 4:12-16 ESV

by Kate White

To those of you who don’t know me: Hi! My name is Kate and I’m the intern at the CFV this semester. In the short month and a half that I’ve been here I’ve had so many positive experiences at the CFV. If you haven’t already, I truly encourage you to take a trip over to the CFV. Take a leap of faith and go to Big Questions, relax with meditation and yoga, or share your spiritual journey with us. If nothing else, you can say that you tried something new and made a few friends. I understand; I was skeptical at first too.

Let me tell you my story and show you how the CFV has impacted my Butler experience.

Last year no one at the CFV knew me. I attended the open house as a freshman and lurked through the Blue House, unsure of the inviting religious aura. It would be another year until I returned to the Blue House to find myself sitting across from the Director, Judy Cebula.
My freshman year was rough to say the least. It was a difficult transition leaving home, making new friends, and growing into my new identity. One question kept eating away at me, “What’s my purpose?” I know, I know. As an 18-year-old, most are concerned with who am I dating, what parties am I going to next and will I have time to go home to have mom do my laundry. Somehow I felt like I needed to have my life figured out.
I spoke with my friends, family, mentors and elders from my church. One night I was challenged with another big question “How will your life serve God?” Being the planner that I am, I jumped on the computer and investigated internships for religious organizations. What luck would have it, the Center for Faith and Vocation offers a number of religiously affiliated internships, another bonus –they’re paid.
That Fall I returned to the Blue House to have my first meeting with Judy. I nervously over prepared for what I perceived to be a pseudo-interview. I sat down and slowly the business formalities fell away. I gradually divulged my life journey to a complete stranger. The tangible calmness of the Blue House and Judy’s kind understanding allowed me to feel at home—something I hadn’t felt in a long time.
After that things started to fall into place. This semester I started my internship and the Center for Faith and Vocation. Every day I go to the Blue House and I feel a sense of calm contemplation and many of my worries fall away. As students, we have so many daily pressures and stresses. At the Blue House I’m reminded that there’s a much higher purpose than what we do every day. We each have to discover our vocations. The Blue House is here to help and cultivate that personal awareness. My time at the CFV has provided me with a richer, more comprehensive college experience that extends beyond my academic needs. I hope that you would also give it a chance and see what the CFV can offer you.

by Laura Micklich on Friday February 3, 2012

While one of my faults is that I can sometimes be impatient, this past Wednesday’s experience helped me grow.

Sitting in morning prayer, I had a difficult time concentrating. I leafed through my prayer book and couldn’t help but sigh at how long the psalms were. All I could think about was how much I wanted to accomplish in the office that morning, and prayer just felt like an impediment to my productivity. I felt that I owed it to the staff to get as much done as I could, as one of the members had been out sick the previous day.

Then, amidst this inner battle, I read a line that made me realize that my “work” isn’t just the tasks I preform in the office. It’s something greater than that. It’s something that St. Benedict taught…duh. It’s “Ora et Labora,” and what it means is that you do God’s work not only through your physical labor, but through your prayer and contemplation as well. All I needed was this simple reminder of what I believe about service in the first place: that what I do for others is ultimately connected to my spirituality. Each day the sisters pray, “Thy will be done,” which is exactly what they are doing by working in the community AND by praying for the members of that community, and all humanity. Prayer is work (and sometimes we feel that way!) and I feel it is one of my responsibilities.

 

by Kate Newman on February 1, 2012

My first impression of university president Jim Danko as he addressed the sophomore class shocked me: This guy was nervous. The president! Nervous! He fiddled with his microphone, searched the audience for his wife, very similarly to all of the things I do when I give a speech in class and feel more like vomiting and running from the room than actually speaking.

According to Pres. Danko, I should probably have that feeling more often. This speech is well-timed for much of the sophomore class, a time that is so often referred to as a “slump” that it is cliché (and where there’s smoke, there’s fire with those sort of things. Love is blind! Reach for the stars! Go with your gut!)

I’ve found that the best way to pull myself out of a slump is to do something that gives me that first-day-of-class-introduction-speech-in-a-foreign-language wave of nausea.  Whether it’s trying hot peppers on pizza (I never looked back after that one) or diving into a new relationship (or in some cases out of an old one), the things that seem terrifying usually turn out pretty wonderfully.  Or not. But that’s part of the fun, isn’t it?

As a kid, I was as much in love with piles of mud and pill bugs as any other squirt on the playground, but my adventurous streak was more or less suffocated by my desire to be “the good one” for my recently divorced parents (and, I’ll admit, occasionally to see my little brother in trouble—sorry Mike!). I didn’t like mushrooms, didn’t ride roller coasters, didn’t publish my poetry under my own name in the school literary magazine.

I was a chicken, and my life got pretty boring. NO MORE! I now put mushrooms in, on, or around most things I eat. I rode TWO roller coasters this summer with moderate success (thank God for Dramamine). I’m still a little shy about sharing my poetry, but hey—my name’s on this blog, isn’t it?