Self-Care, Mindfulness, and Grounding

Self Care in health refers to the activities individuals, families, and communities undertake with the intention of enhancing health, preventing disease, limiting illness, and restoring health. Self-Care exercises are also known as Mindfulness or Grounding Techniques, and are usually used to de-stress, relax, or otherwise make yourself feel good.

Self-Care is individualistic, meaning it is different for everyone. It is suggested that everyone spend a minimum of a half hour a day engaging in self-care.

Self-Care is divided into seven different types of exercises. Here are some examples:

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Sensory

When you feel stressed, calm down by focusing on the sensations around you – sights, smells, sounds, tastes, and touch. This will help you focus on the present moment.

  • Breathe in fresh air
  • Snuggle under a cozy blanket
  • Listen to running water
  • Take a hot shower or warm bath
  • Get a massage
  • Cuddle with a pet
  • Burn a scented candle
  • Wiggle your bare feet in the grass
  • Listen to music
  • Listen to your breathing

Pleasure

Engaging in an activity that you enjoy

  • Take yourself out to eat
  • Garden
  • Watch a movie
  • Do a craft project
  • Journal your thoughts
  • Walk your dogs

Mental/Mastery

Give yourself a boost by doing a task that you’ve been avoiding, or by challenging your brain in a new way.

  • Clean out a junk drawer or a closet
  • Take action (one small step) on something you’ve been avoiding
  • Try a new activity
  • Drive to a new place
  • Make a list
  • Immerse yourself in a crossword puzzle or word search
  • Read something you normally wouldn’t

Spiritual

Getting in touch with your values – what really matters – is a sure way to cope with stress and foster a calm mind.

  • Attend church
  • Read poetry or inspiring quotes
  • Light a candle
  • Meditate
  • Pray
  • Spend time in nature
  • List 5 things you’re grateful for

Emotional

Dealing with our emotions can be challenging when we’re coping with stress. We tend to label feelings as “good” or “bad” but this isn’t helpful. Instead:

  • Accept your feelings. They’re OK. Really.
  • Write your feelings down – journaling
  • Cry when you need to
  • Laugh when you can
  • Practice self-compassion
  • Keep a list of your daily accomplishments

Physical

Cope with stress by getting your body moving.

  • Try yoga
  • Go for a walk or a run
  • Dance
  • Stretch
  • Go for a bike ride
  • Don’t skip sleep to get things done
  • Take a nap

Social

Connecting with others is an important step of self-care.

  • Go on a lunch date with a good friend
  • Call a friend/family member on the phone
  • Participate in a club
  • Join a sports team
  • Volunteer
  • Join a support group

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