Benefits of Laughter

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It’s true: laughter is strong medicine. It draws people together in ways that trigger healthy physical and emotional changes in the body. Laughter strengthens your immune system, boosts mood, diminishes pain, and protects you from the damaging effects of stress. Nothing works faster or more dependably to bring your mind and body back into balance than a good laugh. Humor lightens your burdens, inspires hope, connects you to others, and keeps you grounded, focused, and alert. It also helps you release anger and forgive sooner.

With so much power to heal and renew, the ability to laugh easily and frequently is a tremendous resource for surmounting problems, enhancing your relationships, and supporting both physical and emotional health. Best of all, this priceless medicine is fun, free, and easy to use.

As children, we used to laugh hundreds of times a day, but as adults, life tends to be more serious and laughter more infrequent. But by seeking out more opportunities for humor and laughter, you can improve your emotional health, strengthen your relationships, find greater happiness—and even add years to your life.

Laughter is good for your health

Laughter relaxes the whole body. A good, hearty laugh relieves physical tension and stress, leaving your muscles relaxed for up to 45 minutes after.

Laughter boosts the immune system. Laughter decreases stress hormones and increases immune cells and infection-fighting antibodies, thus improving your resistance to disease.

Laughter triggers the release of endorphins, the body’s natural feel-good chemicals. Endorphins promote an overall sense of well-being and can even temporarily relieve pain.

Laughter protects the heart. Laughter improves the function of blood vessels and increases blood flow, which can help protect you against a heart attack and other cardiovascular problems.

Laughter burns calories. OK, so it’s no replacement for going to the gym, but one study found that laughing for 10 to 15 minutes a day can burn approximately 40 calories—which could be enough to lose three or four pounds over the course of a year.

Laughter lightens anger’s heavy load. Nothing diffuses anger and conflict faster than a shared laugh. Looking at the funny side can put problems into perspective and enable you to move on from confrontations without holding onto bitterness or resentment.

Laughter may even help you to live longer. A study in Norway found that people with a strong sense of humor outlived those who don’t laugh as much. The difference was particularly notable for those battling cancer.

How to bring more laughter into your life

Laughter is your birthright, a natural part of life that is innate and inborn. Infants begin smiling during the first weeks of life and laugh out loud within months of being born. Even if you did not grow up in a household where laughter was a common sound, you can learn to laugh at any stage of life.

Begin by setting aside special times to seek out humor and laughter, as you might with exercising, and build from there. Eventually, you’ll want to incorporate humor and laughter into the fabric of your life, finding it naturally in everything.

Here are some ways to start:

Smile. Smiling is the beginning of laughter, and like laughter, it’s contagious. When you look at someone or see something even mildly pleasing, practice smiling. Instead of looking down at your phone, look up and smile at people you pass in the street, the person serving you a morning coffee, or the co-workers you share an elevator with. Notice the effect on others.

Count your blessings. Literally make a list. The simple act of considering the positive aspects of your life will distance you from negative thoughts that block humor and laughter. When you’re in a state of sadness, you have further to travel to reach humor and laughter.

When you hear laughter, move toward it. Sometimes humor and laughter are private, a shared joke among a small group, but usually not. More often, people are very happy to share something funny because it gives them an opportunity to laugh again and feed off the humor you find in it. When you hear laughter, seek it out and ask, “What’s funny?”

Spend time with fun, playful people. These are people who laugh easily–both at themselves and at life’s absurdities–and who routinely find the humor in everyday events. Their playful point of view and laughter are contagious. Even if you don’t consider yourself a lighthearted, humorous person, you can still seek out people who like to laugh and make others laugh. Every comedian appreciates an audience.

Bring humor into conversations. Ask people, “What’s the funniest thing that happened to you today? This week? In your life?”

helpguide.org/articles/mental-health/laughter-is-the-best-medicine.htm

Five of the Best Things of Spring

With the cold, wet late winter weather, I thought it might be helpful to turn our minds to upcoming spring thoughts.

By Devon Kellums, American Forests

At American Forests, we love every season, but the fresh scents, beautiful colors and new life make us excited for the first day of spring each year!

Read on to find out some of our favorite spring things and help us celebrate the start of a new season.

1. FRESH BLOOMS

Whether it’s flowers or trees, everything is in bloom during the spring. The sweet scent of pollen swirls through the air. It’s incredible to see nature sprout and grow right before your eyes.

2. VIBRANT COLORS

Going from leafless trees and the snow-covered ground to being surrounded by vibrant and luscious landscapes is one of the most refreshing feelings. The world comes to life after surviving the cold winter and it’s apparent in the blue skies and bright green grass.

3. BABY ANIMALS

New life is everywhere during springtime. Animals come out of hibernation and babies are born. From lambs and ducklings to fox pups and bear cubs, you’ll be sure to get your fill of cute baby animals.

4. CHERRY BLOSSOMS

Sweet smells and delicate flowers make cherry blossoms one of the many great gifts that comes with spring. If you’re lucky enough to live in an area with cherry trees, don’t forget to take a moment to appreciate the beauty they bring to the surrounding landscape.

5. A NEW SOUNDTRACK

The sounds of the season tie everything together. Branches and leaves rustling, birds singing and creeks trickling are music to the ears. Waking up in the morning is a bit easier when you’re greeted by spring’s song.

https://www.americanforests.org/blog/5-best-things-spring/

Coloring and Conversations by Center of Wellness for Urban Women (CWUW)

The power of coloring.

Join us for adult coloring and mindfulness activities.  2 hours to color, have a conversation, or just quietly de-stress.  We have coloring pages and crayons but you’re welcome to bring your own.  For women 18 and older.

Date And Time

Wed, February 13, 2019

6:00 PM – 8:00 PM EST

Location

2424 Doctor M.L.K. Jr St

2424 Doctor Martin Luther King Junior Street

Indianapolis, IN 46208

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https://www.eventbrite.com/e/coloring-and-conversations-tickets-55532005724?aff=ebdssbdestsearch

Writing for Fun

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9 Creative Writing Exercises To Awaken Your Inner Author

Even if you don’t think you write well, you do have something to say.

You have a story to tell, knowledge to impart, and experiences to share.

You’ve lived a full life that’s packed with observations and adventures, and you shouldn’t exit this Earth without chronicling them in some way. Whether you write fiction or non-fiction, your life is the laboratory for creating a great book or story.

If you can talk, you can write — even if you need to brush up on grammar and spelling. You’ll naturally become a better writer the more you write. You’ll learn how to organize ideas, make smooth transitions, and expand your vocabulary. Reading also improves your writing, so if you have the tiniest desire to write well, read a wide variety of books in different genres.

These exercises should be practiced without self-judgment, inner filters, or concern about what a reader might think. The purpose is to allow your creative mind complete freedom to cut loose. You don’t have to show this writing to anyone if you don’t want to.

Here are 9 creative writing exercises to get you started:

1. Answer 3 questions. 

In this exercise, you’ll use three questions to stimulate creative thought. You can write these questions yourself, but I’ll give you some examples to show you what to do.

You want to answer the questions as quickly as you can, with whatever ideas pop into your mind. Write as much or as little as you wish, but just allow the words to flow without pondering too much what you want to say.

2. Write a letter to your younger self.

In this exercise, you are writing to yourself at a younger age. It can be your childhood self or yourself just a few years back. You can offer advice, compassion, explanation, forgiveness, or praise. Or you can simply recount an experience you had and how it impacted you as your adult self now.

Try to see this younger self as a real and separate person when you write the letter. This exercise helps you think about your reader as a real person with emotions — a person who can be moved and inspired by your writing.

Again, try not to overthink this exercise. Spend a few minutes deciding the core message of the letter, and then just start writing without filters.

3. Use writing prompts.

A writing prompt is an idea that jump starts the writing process. The prompt can be a short sentence, a paragraph, or even a picture, but the purpose is the same — to ignite your creativity so you’ll begin writing.

Writing prompts can help you when you feel stuck while writing your book. If you take ten minutes to work on a writing prompt, you can go back to your book writing primed to get down to business. It stimulates ideas and the creative process.

4. Write about your expertise. 

Think about something you know how to do well. It can be anything from washing the dishes to selling stocks. Write a few paragraphs (or more if you wish) explaining some aspect of how to do what you do. Assume your reader is completely ignorant about the subject.

This writing shouldn’t sound like a dry instruction manual. Try to write in a conversational style, as though you’re verbally explaining the process. Break down the steps in a way that makes the reader understand exactly what to do, without using business jargon or buzzwords.

5. Write a stream of consciousness page.

This is an easy and fun exercise. You want to write it in longhand rather than typing on your computer, as handwriting slows down the process and allows more time for your creative brain to do its work.

Grab a pen and blank pad and simply start writing. Write down whatever comes into your brain, no matter how nonsensical or disjointed. In her book, The Artist’s Way, author Julia Cameron calls this free writing, “Morning Pages.” She asks the reader to write three pages of stream of consciousness writing every morning. Here’s what she says about Morning Pages:

There is no wrong way to do Morning Pages — they are not high art. They are not even “writing.” They are about anything and everything that crosses your mind– and they are for your eyes only. Morning Pages provoke, clarify, comfort, cajole, prioritize and synchronize the day at hand. Do not over-think Morning Pages: just put three pages of anything on the page…and then do three more pages tomorrow.

6. Write a story told to you.

In this exercise, you want to recount a story told to you by another person. It can be a story one of your parents or grandparents shared about something that happened many years ago, or it can be a more recent event a friend or family member recounted.

Or you can tell a story you learned in school or through reading about a well-known person or event. The story can be funny, sad, or educational — but it should be interesting, entertaining, or engaging in some way.

7. Pretend to be someone else.

In this exercise, you’ll practice writing from another person’s perspective. You can choose a person you know well, or you can write from the point of view of an imagined character. Put yourself in this person’s shoes, see things through their eyes, and react the way they would react.

Choose one situation, encounter, or setting, and write what you see, hear, think, and feel about the scenario. Get inside of this person’s brain, and try to be as descriptive as possible. You can write a paragraph or several pages if you’re inspired.

8. Write about something or someone who changed your life.

In this exercise, rather than telling the story of someone else or pretending to be another person, you want to share your story from your perspective. Write about a person or event that has profoundly impacted you and changed your life.

Rather than simply recounting the situation, talk about how it made you feel, what your reactions were, and how you were changed on the inside as well as the outside. Pour your heart into this writing. Remember, you don’t have to show it to anyone, so be completely vulnerable and real in this exercise.

9. Describe your surroundings.

Simply write a paragraph or two about your surroundings. You can write in first person (“I am sitting at my desk, which is littered with papers and old coffee cups.”), or write in third person, simply describing what you see (“The room is bleak and empty except for one old wooden chair.”).

Challenge yourself to use descriptive language to set the scene. Rather than saying, “The light is shining through the window,” you might say, “The morning sun is streaming through the window, spotlighting a million dancing dust particles and creating mottled shadows on my desk.”

Whether you write fiction or non-fiction, you want to write intriguing descriptions that invite the reader into the setting so they can “see” what you see.

https://authority.pub/creative-writing-exercises/

How Sleep Affects Your Weight and Performance

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If you are a night owl, an early bird or a combination of both, there is one thing we all have in common: You probably aren’t getting enough sleep. While many of us aspire to get those recommended eight hours of sleep, we often try and get by with five or six. Let’s face it—sometimes life gets in the way. We might get absorbed watching a favorite show, get lost reading a good book, or feel excited about a new project and we just don’t get as much sleep as we should. One of the challenges of sleep is we view it as unproductive time. Many of us look at sleep time as hours we could use for something more pressing. The truth is sleep is as important for your health as what you choose to eat and the exercise you do. It’s time to make a mental shift and view sleep as an investment in our health. Let’s take a look at how sleep directly affects your weight and your performance during the day.

A lack of sleep leads to a slew of negatives, including weight gain, cardiovascular disease, diabetes, stroke, depression, lower immune-system response, premature aging and impaired thinking. Lack of sleep is also a primary cause of car accidents, with the American Academy of Sleep Medicine reporting an estimated 250,000 sleep-related traffic accidents each year.

Sleep deprivation can cause weight gain.

If you’ve ever had a sleepless night and the next day felt ravaged by hunger, your body has experienced the negative impact of a lack of sleep on your hormones. The hormones leptin and ghrelin are influenced by how much we sleep. When you don’t get enough sleep, it drives leptin levels down, which means you don’t feel as satisfied after you eat. Your ghrelin levels rise and your appetite is stimulated so you want more food. The two combined make you overeat, according to the Mayo Clinic. The American Journal of Clinical Nutrition found that those who got less than the optimal amount of sleep showed an increase intake of about 300 hundred calories per day. When you are sleep deprived, you reach for snacks. (Plus, a lack of sleep impairs your judgment, so it becomes more difficult to reach for healthy snacks when you are sleep deprived.) If you want to lose weight or maintain your current weight, make sure you get enough sleep.

Sleep gives your body time to rest and rejuvenate.

While you are asleep, your body is busy repairing and rejuvenating. Rest is your recharger, just like charging your cell phone. With seven hours of sleep most nights, your systems will work right. Sleep gives your body and mind the best opportunity to be at your best.

Sleep can impact your metabolism.

When you sleep, your body’s central nervous system is restoring itself. A study in the Annals of Internal Medicine found that the role sleep plays in your metabolism may be just as important. This study also showed evidence that inadequate amounts of sleep may play a role in developing or aggravating existing metabolic disorders.

Sleep is critical for athletic performance.

A good night’s sleep can greatly improve an athlete’s speed, accuracy and reaction time. Athletes in training need sleep to repair their bodies so they can perform at their best. If you are training intensely for an upcoming event, you may need a bit more sleep than the recommended eight, just as you likely need to take in more calories than usual. Some elite athletes aim to get nine or more hours of sleep at night.

Lack of sleep causes fuzzing thinking.

When you are sleep deprived your judgment becomes impaired and you can’t think clearly. Lack of sleep can make it difficult to concentrate and you can become easily distracted. You may not even be aware of the increased energy you could have if you got a full eight hours of sleep.

If you have trouble sleeping at night …

  • Try sticking to a set schedule, even on the weekends.
  • Have a winding down routine at night.
  • Skip caffeine after 5 p.m. and skip alcohol as it can disrupt your sleep.
  • Make sure your bedroom is conducive to sleep.
  • Most people sleep better in total darkness.
  • Silence your smartphone. Better yet, keep it out of your bedroom.
  • Choosing the right mattress, sheets, pillows and comforter can dramatically improve your comfort and quality of sleep, so make sure you think your bed is comfortable.
  • Avoid doing anything you consider remotely stressful in your bedroom—like work.
  • Make your bedroom a peaceful environment where you get the seven to eight hours of sleep your body needs for optimal health and performance.

https://www.acefitness.org/education-and-resources/professional/expert-articles/5420/how-sleep-affects-your-weight-and-performance

Garfield Park Conservatory Christmas

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3 Tips to Manage Stress

As the semester progresses and stress rises, these strategies may help decrease  your stress load and refresh you.

3 tips to manage stress

We all have stress — at work, at home, and on the road. Sometimes we can feel especially stressed because of a bad interaction with someone, too much work, or everyday hassles like getting stuck in traffic.

Negative stress can keep you from feeling and performing your best — mentally, physically and emotionally. But no one’s life is completely stress-free. It’s important to know how to manage the stress in your life. Try these three simple techniques for dealing with it.

Positive Self-Talk

Let’s be honest, we all talk to ourselves! Sometimes we talk out loud but usually we do it in our heads. Self-talk can be positive (“I can do this” or “everything will be OK”) or negative (“I’ll never get better” or “I’m so stupid”). Negative self-talk increases stress. Positive self-talk can help you calm down and control stress. With practice, you can learn to shift negative thoughts to positive ones. For example:

Negative to Positive

“I can’t do this.”> “I’ll do the best I can. I’ve got this.”
“Everything is going wrong.” “I can handle this if I take one step at a time.”
“I hate it when this happens.” “I know how to deal with this; I’ve done it before.”
“I feel helpless and alone.”> “I can reach out and get help if I need it.”
“I can’t believe I screwed up. “I’m human, and we all make mistakes. I can fix it.”
To really make it work, practice positive self-talk every day — in the car, at your desk, before you go to bed or whenever you notice negative thoughts. It’s a great practice to teach kids, too!

Top 10 Emergency Stress-Stoppers

Emergency stress stoppers are actions to help you defuse stress in the moment. You may need different stress stoppers for different situations, and sometimes it helps to combine them. Here are some ideas:

  1. Count to 10 before you speak or react.
  2. Take a few slow, deep breaths until you feel your body un-clench a bit.
  3. Go for a walk, even if it’s just to the restroom and back. It can help break the tension and give you a chance to think things through.
  4. Try a quick meditation or prayer to get some perspective.
  5. If it’s not urgent, sleep on it and respond tomorrow. This works especially well for stressful emails and social media trolls.
  6. Walk away from the situation for a while, and handle it later once things have calmed down.
  7. Break down big problems into smaller parts. Take one step at a time, instead of trying to tackle everything at once.
  8. Turn on some chill music or an inspirational podcast to help you deal with road rage.
  9. Take a break to pet the dog, hug a loved one or do something to help someone else.
  10. Work out or do something active. Exercise is a great antidote for stress.

Stress-Busting Activities

Doing things you enjoy is a natural way to relieve stress and find your happy place. Even when you’re down, you may find pleasure in simple things like going for a walk, catching up with a friend, or reading a good book.

When stress makes you feel bad, do something that makes you feel good, even if only for 10 or 15 minutes. Some of these activities may work for you:

  • Make art — draw, color, paint, or play a musical instrument.
  • Work on a scrapbook or photo album to focus on good memories.
  • Read a book, short story or magazine.
  • Meet a friend for coffee or a meal.
  • Play a favorite sport like golf, tennis, or basketball.
  • Do a hobby like sewing, knitting, or making jewelry.
  • Play with your kids or pets – outdoors if possible.
  • Listen to music or watch an inspiring performance.
  • Take a walk in nature.
  • Take a relaxing bath and feel the stress wash away.
  • Meditate or practice yoga.
  • Work in the garden or do a home improvement project.
  • Go for a run or bike ride to clear your head.

The key is to find your groove and make it a practice. You’ll be amazed at how quickly you may start to feel better once you disrupt the cycle of stress.

https://www.heart.org/en/healthy-living/healthy-lifestyle/stress-management/3-tips-to-manage-stress#.WgnPTLmouM8

November Winter Fun


Toboggan Run at Pokagon State Park

Pokagon State Park’s refrigerated Toboggan Run near Angola, Indiana, has about 90,000 riders every season. With the 30-foot tower and dips and valleys, the total vertical drop is 90 feet over the course of a quarter mile. The top recorded speed is 42 mph. It’s a 20 to 30 second thrill ride.

Schedule

It opens for the season, with or without snow at 10:30 a.m., Nov. 23. It operates through Feb. 24, 2018.

Hours

Friday: 5:30-9 p.m.
Saturday: 10:30 a.m.-9 p.m.
Sunday: 11 a.m.-5 p.m.

The Toboggan has extended hours during winter break and is open on New Year’s Day, Martin Luther King Day and Presidents’ Day.

Fees & General Information

  • Toboggan sled rental per hour: $13 (including tax). Toboggan Run gift certificates.
  • Toboggan renters are guaranteed one ride per hour during peak times.
  • Friday Special: Rent three toboggans in the same hour, the third one is free (except during winter break).
  • Park entrance fees: $7 in-state vehicles, $9 out-of-state vehicles, $2 a person on a bus.
  • During winter, fees are collected Friday nights and on weekends when the run is open.
  • Park closes at 11 p.m. Opens at 7 a.m.
  • Driver’s license is required as deposit, rents up to four toboggans.
  • Must use park’s sleds. Rented on first-come, first-served basis.
  • Maximum of four people per toboggan (no exceptions).
  • Cash, check and Visa/MasterCard accepted.
  • No all-day rentals.
  • No group reservations or group rates.
  • There are no specific age or height restrictions, but children must be able to understand and abide by rules.
  • No cameras or video equipment allowed on ride.
  • Toboggan will close if temperature drops to 0 degrees F or below.
  • Warming Center concession available (carry-in food prohibited).
  • Nature Center is open noon-4 p.m. Wednesday-Friday; closed Monday and Tuesday; and open 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Saturday and Sunday.
  • The park office, (260) 833-2012, is open 8:30 a.m. to 4 p.m. every day, except Thanksgiving and Christmas